Being a New Mum...

Nine months back I was blessed, nine months back I was honored, nine months back i was re born...

After greetings,

Last year, when i first knew i am expecting, i knew i am going to be blessed... soon after that i started to receive all this advise on how to take care of myself, eat well, make sure you sleep correctly atc atc atc ... But actually i knew they mean to say ... take care of the baby inside you...

Weeks came and the baby was growing, i started to read, research and ask all about this little fetus and how amazingly grow throw nine months...

An till November 30, 2011, is the day i was blessed, honored, reborn at the very moment my baby girl was born... I felt re born as mother and BANG .... (I slept my face) it was a slap on the face...

No one told me how to take care of a baby, no one told me i will be responsible of a small human, do you know what dose that mean? let me elaborate more... it means she need to be kept cold when its hot, kept worm when its cold, feed when she is hungry and when she cay you just need to know how to calm her down...

No one told me its ongoing duty, its a full time 24/7 job, no vacation, no break, no holiday ... and indeed no retirement... (with a smile on the face)....

Today, if we all sit back and think of our mothers, how they took care of us since we were born, smiled when we were happy, lough we made naughty, worried when we had exams and become happy whenever we succeed...

They took care of us till we became parents our self, let us take this moment to pray for all our mothers and promise to go back home and put a big smile on their face, kiss their forehead and tell them Thank You..

With all the duties that I had as being a mother, i felt promoted with every each mile stone she complete... She start to smile at me, lough, flip then sit down... now she can stand... and call BABA, yes they always got the privilege to be called first ... I feel proud with more responsibility while her ongoing growth... I cant wait for her to call mama, Yet to make her first step...

Believe it or not, with all the sleepless night, being unti social and ongoing busyness... IT ALL WORTH IT .... with just a SMILE from her... with just an open arms asking for a hug...

(then i showed them the below smiling pictures of my baby girl)...

Above was my Project three (P3) with toastmaster club on 17th of September 2012, where i need to get to the point. It was a great speech, audience as much as myself enjoyed it... it was from the deep of myself as being a mother and they all felt it... I managed to drive them all and think of their mothers and how they should go back and make them smile... Improvement area: i still need to use more vocal and body language... 

Stay Tuned...

The Club Experience...

Dear All,

Today I wanted to share the Toastmaster meeting experience with you... there is no better way than for you to see an actual meeting, so please enjoy the video...  

Hope you enjoyed the video, but indeed our club is more fun, our toastmaster of the day come out with a theme in each meeting and it becomes more fun. Sometimes the theme comes along with our present occasion such as eid, ramthan or even back to school time...

The ICE BREAKER

Project one (P1) it’s your ice break into the club, in the first speech you need to introduce yourself to your fellow club members and give them some information about your background, interests, and ambitions.


You will have time from four to six minutes, and your objectives is to begin speaking to audience and discover speaking skills you already have and skills that need attention.

In June 4th 2012 I gave my 1st speech under the title "The One".... I presented as below:

"If you could all close your eyes and imagine with me for few min, we are all hungry, we are all thirsty... we are all waiting, surrounded by the family at the house garden under the clear sky, and suddenly you hear (then i played the athan by my mobile phone).

In this special spiritual moments, you can all open your eyes like the very first time i opened my eyes to the world. Yes I was born in the holy month of Ramathan many years ago.

Toastmaster of the day, fellow toastmasters, our guest, good after noon.

I am the only kid in the family, who was raised with a single parent. During school days, though i had many friends around, but i only had one best friend. I graduated from high school in 1999. And graduated from University with a Bachelor in Business Information Technology from Luton University, UK in 2004.

Two months later, i joined my current company as a trainee. We were six, three girls and three byes but only one got hired after six months training, guess who? Yes I was the one...

Now i have completed eight years with my employer, started with procurement and tenders department, after two years i moves to recruitment in HR, and currently i am with training and development team.

I am now married with one daughter, who is enlightening my world.

Number ONE had a big role in my life, though i was born in a very special month, today i found that all months are special in their own way. When i used to ask my mum to go out with friend, she used to always ask, which group you are going out with. School, college, university or work? I found that I have lots of friend from different stages of my life with more than one best friend :)

Today i go back to my mother's house, i am not the only one anymore, not the princes of the house, i have a friend, a partner, a brother and husband who share the love of my family.

Though i still have one daughter, i wish to have many more kids in future..."

The whole speech were within the time giving, I might have said more than what’s written but this are the most outline of my speck, I was well prepared which made me a confident presenter.

Below are the evaluation Q&A

What strong points dose the speaker already have?
Confidence

How well did the audience get to know the speaker?Very well

Did the speech reflect adequate preparation?
Sure

Did the speaker talk clearly and audibly?
Yes

Did the Speaker talk clearly and audibly?
Yes

Did the speech have a definite opening, body and conclusion?
Yes

Please comment on the speaker;s use of notes.
Not using the notes.

What could the speaker have done differently that would have improved the speech?
Concluded with passion in future.

What did you like about the presentation?
Confident

YES YES YES... It was my first speech and i made it and was voted for the best project speech speaker of for the day...

Toastmasters International Club...

Toastmasters International is a world leader in communication and leadership development. With membership is 280,000 strong. These members improve their speaking and leadership skills by attending one of the 13,500 clubs in 116 countries that make up their global network of meeting locations.

Membership in Toastmasters is one of the greatest investments you can make in yourself, it is also one of the most cost-effective skill-building tools available anywhere.

How Does It Work?
A Toastmasters meeting is a learn-by-doing workshop in which participants hone their speaking and leadership skills in a no-pressure atmosphere.
There is no instructor in a Toastmasters meeting. Instead, members evaluate one another’s presentations. This feedback process is a key part of the program’s success.

Meeting participants also give impromptu talks on assigned topics, conduct meetings and develop skills related to timekeeping, grammar and parliamentary procedure.

Members learn communication skills by working in the Competent Communication manual, a series of 10 self-paced speaking assignments designed to instill a basic foundation in public speaking.

And Since my orgonisation have their oun club, I BECAME A MEMBER... since few months now. And I have already finished my 3rd Compentent Communication (CC) project.

I ready for my fourth now but i would like to share them all in right order in my future post inshallah..

Did i mentioned it??!
I am sooooo missing blogging, and hope this enthusiasm do not go away soon...

Hope you are still out there my readers...

For more information about the club visit www.toastmasters.org

The Alphabet Tag

Tagged by Stand – Alone ..

Its been awhile since I've done a tag.. this was fun =D
A
– Available: Married
– Age: 30
– Animals: Far far away and no touch…
B
– Beer: Not in my dictionary
– Best friends: I have three
– Body Part on opposite sex: Shoulders and chest
– Best feeling in the world: Kicks of my baby inside my belly
– Best weather: Spring
– Been in Love: Yes
– Been on stage: Yes
– Believe in Magic: Yes
– Believe in Santa: No
– Brand: All are my friends
C
– Candy: YES PELASE for sure..
– Color: Red
– Chocolate/Vanilla: Chocolate Indeed and all the time
- Chinese/Indian/Italian: Chinese is my favorite
- Cake or pie: Cake
– Cheese: I LOVE LOVE LOVE cheese
D
– Day or Night: Hmm, I am not sure.. it depends on the activity
– Dancing in the rain: Sure, I could try it one day
E
– Eyes: Black
– Ever failed a class: Yes (one subject at university)
– Enemies: I don't care
– Exercise: Naaaa not my thing at all 
F
– First thoughts waking up: I am hungry 
– Food: Like to try new dishes all the time
G
– Greatest Fear: Something to happen to my unborn baby
– Get along with your parents: Yes
H
– Hair Color: Black
– Happy: Yes alhamdullah, cold not ask for more at this moment
– Holiday: I need one after I deliver my baby
I
– Ice Cream: Sure any time, especially now with my pregnancy
J
– Jewelry: White gold and diamond
– Job: Need to change mine
K
– Kids: Cant wait
– Kickboxing or karate: karate
– Keep a journal: I keep a blog
L
– Love: is all around 
– Laughed so hard you cried: many times
M
- Milk flavor: chocolate
– Movies: Yes, its the ultimate best time
– Motion sickness: 50/50
N
– Number: 24
O
– One wish: Safe delivery inshallah
P
– Perfect Pizza: Don't have one
– Pepsi/Coke: Coke
– Perfume/Cologne: both
Q
– Quail: moo tha?
R
– Reason to cry: Many
– Reality T.V: Nothing is reality when its on TV 
– Radio Station: 102.7 (Hala FM)
S
– Song: Depends on the mood 
– Shoe size: 39 -40
– Salad Dressing: Italian.. my mother’s home  mad dressing 
– Skinny dip: Haa?!
– Strawberries/Blueberries: Strawberries
– Sport: Not my thing
- Sex: Forbidden topic
T
– Tattoos: Its an art, but not for me 
– Thunderstorms: make me scarred

U
– Unpredictable: Most of the time
V
– Vacation spot(s): A cruise
W
– Weakness: I am not sure
– Who makes you laugh the most: a lot of people
– Worst Weather: Hot
X
– X-Rays: yes, I had lots of them
Y
-Year it is now: 2011
-Yellow: Reminds me of an old friend and its my hubby worst color  
Z
– Zoo animal: Not a fan of zoo

Week 31

This week my baby is over 16 inches long, weighs about 3.3 pound and is heading into grwth spurt. He can turn his head from side to side, his arms, legs and body are becoming to pump out as needed fat accumulates underneath his skin..

He's moving a lot too so sometimes i have trouble sleeping becouse of his kicks. But indeed all this moving is a sign that my baby is active and healthy..

Now I feel my tummy more tightening, extremly haveir and my whole body is in pain.. It feels like i did workout after a long break and the next day my body is in pain..

I think i am starting to counting down and cant wait for my delivey, but i pray my coming weeks will be better.. Alhamdullah, hubby n mother are just great suppot and make me stronger..

My temper is becoming high, i get upset easly and could start showting in no time..

30 Weeks…

I am exactly 30wk and 2days…

Alhamdullah all is well and my baby is kicking like he is hell asking to get out soon… he moves when i eat, set, shower and mostly when i sleep… as if he decide to be awake and play when i decide to sleep… Naughty Baby

My last visit to the doctor was yesterday, ohh yea i did change my doctor…. was not happy with the first one no more… my new doctor is so lovely and friendly…  She welcomes all my question and answers them very happily. And at the visit we hade a 3D baby scan, it was the most joyful one, we saw his face features, opened his eyes, played with his fingers in front of his face and did want to put them on his mouth…. I felt like he was sooo enjoying and playing by himself telling us i am here and cant wait to see you…

On the 6th September, i must mentioned the lovely surprised baby shower i had… which was organized by Standy, Nusy, um aryam and other friends… Thanks a bunch to all of you, love you all and you really surprised me… May allah keep us together and forever… It was amazing …..

 

I guess this is all for now, need to rush to get my baby hospital bag ready…. be happy and stay tuned..

With Love… No ID

Eid alfitr 1432

 

Marahib, this was my first eid after marriage n was so looking forward to it... First day morning was amazing every thing went well though we got late... But I am sure will schedule it better next time...
Just by lunch time started ti feel sick and by the evening I got serious, my tummy was sooo upset and starting vomiting  n ishal mal bel zain.. It continue till next day where by six was totally weak n could not stand ... Went to hospital, gave me one injection n two type of drips...

By end of it, was sooo sleepy as if was under drugs...   spend the day sleeping n resting till evening, we went to the BBQ had a blast n just by night started to feel pain on my lower part of belly, got scarred of my baby n by the next morning I was at the ER.. Got immediate attention n they found I had infection in my urine n alhamdullah the baby is perfectly fine.. Third day by lunch... I felt better n we had our lunch at my grand's ...

Next day, really felt wanting to go out n my hubby took me to amazing romantic dinner at Al Bustan Palace Hotel.. Where we had great memories of our weeding day.. Lovely dinner it was.. It mad me forget all the illness I had... Ammmmouah love you my hubby..

This is just about it n how I spend my eid.. Hope u all did enjoy yours more then I did ..

Ramathan and Pregnancy

Oh my god, this post is very very late…. But I should blame my extreme laziness, I am not sure if its because of fasting while pregnant or the weather as well, as I see this laziness with everyone this ramathan..
First I was scared I would not be able to fast, but Alhamdulillah so far I did not miss a day and it became easier than I thought… it was actually hard at first till my system got used to it… But I became useless once I finish my iftar, I feel extremely heavy and just can't move...

I am almost done with my 27th week pregnancy, and my belly is just getting bigger and moving on bed harder .. Some nights I sleep for two hours and some are just sleepless nights.. Everyone keep telling me to have maximum rest/sleep before delivery but what if I just can't sleep though I am on bed early.. Hey ppl, it's not my option that I can't sleep ... :(

My work became yelawa3 more day by day, it could be pregnancy hormone but its just make me seriously thinking of having long unpaid leave after delivery, menha I'll take care of my baby inshallah and menha I'll be focusing on my business campaign...

By the way, it's 25th of ramathan today... Which is my hijri birthday... Yea I was Bourn in July / ramathan ... Where they say this cycle happens every 30 years.. Which means 30 years back was the last time ramathan in summer...

Eid is approaching next week, and we are having long holiday inshallah ... I need to think of some plans to do.. Hmmmmm (will think of some thing to do with my hubby) ...

And I am alhamdullah ready for eid... Outfit, accessories and shoes are done... I just need to pick my mom's eid gift n pick my hubby 's gift from the rapping girl and I am set....

Friday will be starting my saloon appointments from head to tows... Spool looking forward for this full body service n relaxing...

Happy Eid for all my readers in advance, hope you all have a great one ...
With love from No ID... xxx

30 Years…

I completed 30 years, it was a hell of a wakeup call.. I can't believe I am 30 already...

Looking back many I went throw, breaks which mad me stronger.. Pains which mad me happier.. People were close n disappeared other were strange n became close.. And there are those special people who were n remind in my life in health n illness, in good n bad times and will never change...

I finished my school and joined university in UK, where I had the best experience... 6ab3an more educated n earned my bachelor but more than that learned the best life lesson of being matured, self responsible n mingle with deferent ppl in culture, experience and background... Loved those days...

Joined my company in April 2005, and now have completed six years and already successfully promoted twice and changed my role once.. Now I am starting my plan to exit n focus on my business .... Inshallah the sooonest...

Oh yea... I did find my extreme passionate in weddings and organizing therefore I decided to take it as a business...

I got married this year to an amazing man... He shows me everyday that I did the right choice... Loving, caring, respecting n more more qualities which showers me in every single moment together...

Now I am pregnant with my first baby, when I first received the news ... I was in a shock,  could not know how to react but I am sure its the most great thing could ever happen to a women... It's a dream we all have since we were kids n playing with dolls..   Can't wait to see you my baby...

I don't feel old, I just feel Great, Happy n more matured ...  Proud for who I am n what I have .... Family, husband, friends n knowledge ....  And it's just the beginning YaHoooooo……

Love you all and Mubarak 3alekom Ramathan….

Hit 30

Hey .... I am offically 30..

Not 30s just 30... and the world is still fun..

Week 21

Nothing much on this week, except my baby become more n more active ... And he sound so ticklish especially when I lay down.. Ohhh I am sooo enjoying this moments... But the funny part is my husband scared from him... He is so sensitive when it comes to the baby n when I try keep him fell the baby moves he jumbs away.... LoooooL he extremely made me laugh n it was his last time so far .... He avoids carrying babys scared that it will hurt him in some ways ...

My husband never carried a baby... Yea he is from that type... Although I think he will be excited to level he WILL carry our little one for sure...

Week 20

On that week I successfully hit half way on my pregnancy... Yahooo Mbroook to No identity.. I started to feel my baby is moving n it felt like bubbles inside my belly and it was the most amazing feeling ever.. So loving it .. :-)

Alhamdullah all the morning sickness started to vanish but my night sleeping is becoming more difficult every day, therefore I had to do lots of research on the best way pregnant women can relax.. I did find some helpful videos on you tupe and of course using tips from baby center was great.. Therefore started my special long pillow hunting.. ;)


At the same time, getting out of bed is harder than ever! I had to roll over onto my side so am facing the edge of the bed, dungle my legs over the side and use my arms to push myself into a sitting position. plant my feet squarely on the floor and then stand up... weeeh


After cancelling our trip away my hubby suggested to not cancel our leave and he took me to Dubai for three nights.. it was our first trip to dubai together n we really enjoyed it to the maaaax.. alhamdullah.. The great part was when I started to shop for my little one, you cant imagine how crazy I was when seeing all nice small shoes and socks...


While there, I decided to pick a baby yellow for the baby welcome theme (my junckle family) available at mothercare.. and i did find the most relaxing pillow for pregnant women ever..


After that, we hit abuthabi to see his family who are leaving there and wished them a happy ramathan to come inshallah n 6ab3an they were all happy to see my little belly ;D

28th June 2011

 

Now I am week 19, this visit to my Dr was shocking…

She confirmed that I have placenta previa which means that my placenta is laying unusually low in my uterus. She did mention that at last visit but with my progress in my pregnancy it may lead to some complication of high risk bleeding or c-section delivery.

I could not get the how risky it is (as most of our Drs this days make everything sound easy) until she totally prevent me from travelling, here when me and my husband looked at each other with a slap on the face… it was totally not expected as we had no issues in all previous checkup plus we already had the plan and purchase our ticket for eight days get away after one week.

I totally blame her, she could have explained more what placenta previa especially it's my first pregnancy, and maybe it would at least prevent us from losing a good amount of money for non refundable tickets and energy.

Anyhow, other than that.. My baby is healthy, perfectly growing and very active although I still can't sense its movements yet… while he dose move a lot looking into his ultrasound…

On the side my Dr's orders:

1. Reconfirmed my delivery date is 22.11.11

2. Not to be strongly active and have a maximum time laying down

Small Picture .... (2)

Now that was my unborn baby's scan picture I was talking about last post, yaaaaaay yes i am pregnang and i am soooo happy ...

Though it was not expected and made me in shock for the first few weeks BUT now i lay down and enjoy each moment of it ...

The third time i went for my monthly checkup, the scan was 3D and we were able to see his face, full body it was ammmmazing, loving him already... I looked into my hubby's face "I cant wait to see him" I said..

He was sooo kicking his hands and feet, sooo cute and my Dr. "very active baby" she said... I guess his going to be a very naughty one ;)

Cant express how happy I am, with all the side effects of mood swings and body changes but i just sit some time with my hands on my little belly and get into my own world... thinking how i am a mother to be and how would spend my time with him, change his cloths, do his bath, feed him and for sure have lees sleeping night...

Now I am on week 18, and will try to post each week progress from now on and for sure will post my baby's little scan picture...

Cant wait to see you my baby ohhh cant believe it, No Identity is becoming a mmummy sooon Inshallah..

Small Picture... (1)

On the day I saw you picture for the first time, you immediately put a big smile on my face....

Your Picture was too small and your facial appearance are not that clear BUT it only made me can't wait to see you in person, can't wait for your next picture which you promised to send....

LOVE YOU

Protect Your Dream...

Engagement...

Now after the proposal, whats needed?

I Guess You Need a RING, my fience calls and tells me: "i am not really good in these things.. so for now and as i still dont know your test, plz have a look and choose your ring"... I was WOW excellent idea..

After few days, i heard about a jewelry exhibition for an Omani leady who have home diamond business... She usually have great designs and for sure cheaper than the market... 6ab3an she was guaranteed with her staff to be real diamond..

And instantly after i reached her place, I fall in love with her great designs and i got together with my wedding ring...

Now that was not the story, later and just few weeks before my wedding day, my mother in law calls my mother asking for my ring size... and I was HAA? specifying the wedding ring finger size.. ?!!!

It was a shock, then asked hubby and his reply was "hey habibti, laa they dont know i got it for you already... their plan was to choose for you... just ignore you will have one more" .... !!!!!

And here you go.. No identity have two wedding rings ;)

P.C. I dont like the fact there is no speel check on blogger.com ;(

P.C. I like the face one is Gold and one is Silver ... ;)

Back...

Heeeeey...

I am back to posting... I have not post for ages and I am sooooooo missing it..
And the rezone I was away is becouse got soooo busy with my wedding....
Yea RIGHT, I GOT MARRIED on the 4th of Februray...

I did not post since the minit i got engaged and even more before that... but I have looooooots of topics which I would love to share, some about my engagement, my wedding and more about my new life...

I hope will not loooose this 7amaaaaas...

With Love to ALL.... BE WAITING for my new stories ;)

في ذكرى موتانا و موتى المسلمين

سيأتي العيد وما زالت قلوبنا مفجوعه برحيلهم
فإجعل اللهم عيدهم في الفردوس الأعلى بقدرتك ورحمتك التي وسعت كل شي
وإرحم من كانوا معنا بالأعياد الماضية ولن يرجعوا ليكونوا معنا
اللهم إغفر لخالتي عائشه ولجميع موتى المسلمين وإشفع لهم وأسكنهم فسيح جناتك
اللهم آمين
وكل عام وأنتم بألف صحة وعافية